Mar 31, 2021

So…ummm….yeah. Our bodies ain’t the same. Many of us are doing and looking great. But even so, 3 and 4 hour sessions are not realistic or necessary. And all of that pretzel-y stuff becomes more of a chore does it not? Is it just us? Whatchall think? You still got that a pretzel or two in ya? Joy and KC are joined...

Mar 26, 2021

It would all be so simple. But you’d rather make it hard….The whole situation with Andrew Gillum and the recent GQ article got us to thinking about radical honesty. Wouldn’t life be easier and relationships be so much healthier if we were radically honest? Just tell people what you really want not what you think...

Mar 16, 2021

Sugars. Honey loves. Boos and baes. What we not gone do in the year of our Lord 2021 and in our 40s and beyond is be in these streets not having the Big O. Or even the little o. The French don’t call it petit mort for nothing baby. There are women who still aren’t having orgasms! BUT people are quick to label it...

Mar 12, 2021

Period! PEEEE-REEE-ATT! It is ok for Black women to want, buy, require and have nice things. Why are there so many conditions for us??? When the same prerequisites and subsequent judgement isn’t levied on other women. It’s only an issue because of the lack of parity. Joy, KC the Alchemist and guest host Najla air...

Mar 9, 2021

More than one man has said something in this vein. WTF does this mean? Is this a slick insult?  Is this akin to people telling educated women to “date down?” It sure feels that way. But maybe we’re missing something. What say you? We ask our friend Uncle Royce to come through and enlighten. He always has some wise...