May 11, 2021

Sis. SIS. NOT. EVERY. SINGLE. WOMAN. IS. DESPERATE. (hood clapping implied) Or thirsty or hella lonely. OR wants your husband in particular. You’re also not superior (certainly not happier) because you’re married. Most women I know don’t want someone else’s man or a piece of a man. We have to talk about this....

May 7, 2021

There was a tweet that said men want traditional values and traditional roles without having the money to maintain that. Ain’t nobody trying live in the gutter with you sir! Marriage was very much so transactional back in the olden days. The suitor had to come with some coins but it was essentially a merger of assets....

May 4, 2021

There has been a debate raging in the world of women’s sports when it comes to whether or now trans women or even bio women like Caster Semenya with high testosterone levels should be allowed to compete against other women. Obviously we don’t have any power but we do have some opinions.

Apr 27, 2021

All of this mess with Meghan Markle has us thinking about how Black women are living in this dual reality. We are both unseen and TOO seen. It’s a tricky conundrum. It’s not easy live in this skin boos and baes but we gone alright.

Apr 23, 2021

So Nick Cannon…messy boots! It’s not just him and in fairness it’s not just Black men. There’s a bigger issue afoot. Why do women keep laying up with him? Why is he getting a pass because “he has money to take of all them?” And what’s up with the double standard? Can women get a pass?